Is Your Property Really a Unicorn? The Pricing Trap That Costs Owners Time and Money
- Elaine Kim
- May 28
- 3 min read
One of the hardest conversations I have with apartment owners is explaining the difference between a property’s story and its market value.
Every owner has reasons their property is special.

Maybe you’ve owned it for 30 years. Maybe you’ve renovated units over time. Maybe you’ve carefully selected tenants and maintained the building better than your competitors. Maybe you’ve watched the neighborhood transform around you.
Those things matter.
But they don’t always translate into value the way owners expect.
Every Owner Thinks Their Property Deserves a Premium
When I meet with owners, I often hear:
“My units are larger.”
“The location is better.”
“The rents have upside.”
“The property down the street sold for more.”
“They aren’t making any more land.”
“A developer might pay more.”
And sometimes those points are valid.
The challenge is that the owner down the street is saying the exact same thing.
Every seller believes their property is a unicorn.
Buyers, however, are comparing opportunities—not stories.
Buyers Don’t Underwrite Memories
Owners naturally look backward.
They remember the years of ownership, improvements, challenges, and successes.
Buyers look forward.
They’re asking:
What income does this property generate today?
What capital improvements are needed?
What financing is available?
What return can I achieve?
What other opportunities can I buy instead?
The market rewards future performance, not past effort.
That’s why a property can be deeply meaningful to an owner while still trading within a relatively predictable value range.
The Question Isn’t What You Want. It’s What You Want to Accomplish.
Every owner wants the highest possible price.
Of course they do.
The real question is:
Do you want to sell your property, or do you want to test the market?
Those are two very different strategies.
A property priced realistically often attracts the largest buyer pool, creates competition, and generates momentum.
A property priced significantly above where buyers are underwriting may sit for months waiting for a buyer who never arrives.
Eventually, the conversations begin:
“Should we reduce the price?”
“Maybe the market changed.”
“Let’s try another adjustment.”
But often the market didn’t change.
The pricing was simply ahead of where buyers were willing to transact.
The Hidden Cost of Overpricing
Many owners assume there’s no downside to starting high.
There is.
A significant one.
The first few weeks on the market are often when a property receives the most attention.
Buyers notice new inventory.
They schedule tours.
They discuss opportunities internally.
They sharpen their pencils.
When a property misses the market, that initial momentum can disappear.
Months later, buyers aren’t asking:
“How quickly can I make an offer?”
They’re asking:
“What’s wrong with it?”
The property becomes stale.
Showings slow.
Offers become more aggressive.
Negotiating leverage weakens.
And after multiple price reductions, many properties ultimately sell near the value that was supported by the market from the beginning.
The difference is that the owner spent six months getting there.
The Market Is Usually Smarter Than All of Us
One lesson I’ve learned in commercial real estate is that the market has a way of humbling everyone.
Owners have opinions.
Brokers have opinions.
Buyers have opinions.
Eventually, though, the market gets the final vote.
Sometimes properties outperform expectations.
Sometimes they disappoint.
Most often, they trade remarkably close to where the market evidence suggested they would.
A Better Question for Owners
Instead of asking:
“What’s the highest number someone will tell me?”
Ask:
“What evidence supports that value?”
A strong valuation should be backed by:
Comparable sales
Current competing listings
Financing conditions
Buyer demand
Market trends
The specific strengths and weaknesses of your property relative to alternatives
Because a property’s value isn’t determined by what an owner hopes.
It isn’t determined by what a broker promises.
It’s determined by what a qualified buyer is willing and able to pay.
Final Thought
Every seller hopes their property is a unicorn.
Occasionally, it is.
But before betting six months of market time on that assumption, ask yourself:
What if it’s not?
The goal isn’t to win a listing presentation.
The goal isn’t to hear the highest number.
The goal is to achieve the best outcome with the least amount of wasted time, uncertainty, and frustration.
In commercial real estate, realistic pricing isn’t about settling.
It’s about positioning your property where buyers will compete for it—before it becomes another stale listing wondering why the phone stopped ringing.
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